Yes, breaking up is not easy. But do you know which is more difficult? Surviving the breakup. It is even hurtful to think that the relationship that you nurture with all your love, care and hope for the future might slips out of your hands and you will be left with nothing but reminiscence. The reflex to fight the emotion is a very tough gatherer. You have to bear the pain and live with it. But hang on! Isn’t it better to live alone than to be with the wrong person?
Break up can not be the end of life. Instead thank your stars for letting you out of the wrong relationships in which you have been suffering since a long time. You might have been the only one to care and hold on to your relationship with all that you had and the other person did not even bother. Therefore, why not take a completely newer perspective and move on with your life? You deserve better. And if you can not move on, you will be the only one who will suffer. Because, trust me, your ex would be happy in his life and lead it in a normal way.
Break Up Tips
If it is being very difficult to not being able to cope up with the break up, here are a few effective tips get over your ex once and for all.
Do not Contact: Remember the golden rule that Ex’s can not be friends! Cut off every bit of connection with him. Strictly no phone calls, no chatting, no messages, nothing. If he tries to be nice by asking you out, bluntly deny. He can not treat you like a play thing to make you act according to his fancies.
Avoid Old Spots: If you want to stop thinking about him at all avoid your dating spots. It might be difficult if you are studying in the same college or working in the same office. But as far as possible stay away from all those places where you have a lot to reminiscence about.
Distract Yourself: Hang on! I did not mean for you to go for habits such as drinking or smoking. Instead try to have fun. Join some hobby class, go out with old friends, go for blind dates or just go for a solo trip. It will keep you fresh and rejuvenate you at all times.
Accept: Try to accept the hash fact that your relationship is over and there is not way to get it back. Therefore, stop mourning over the past. Do not seem needy or desperate or give false hopes of reconciliation. Do not hang on to the past. Accept and move on.
Don’t Give Up: Merely one failed relationship can not decide your fate on love. Love is the most wonderful thing that happens in your life. So, what, it failed one time? Chuck out the idea that you will never find the right guy. There are better choices waiting for you out there. Never give up on love. You never know when you will end up with your soulmate.
