Getting marriage is grand because it is a matter of lifetime commitment. And every young lad nad lady has to take part in the process after attaining a certain age. It is a huge leap of life that will take you to a complete new platform. Therefore, you will have to make sure that the person you are planning on taking the ride with is right.
Marriage is a holy bond shared between two individuals. It is the unison of two souls, thus beginning a new chapter of their lives. Asking a few questions before you get married will help you know the other person better (provided you are opting for an arranged marriage). Below are few of such questions you need to ask your partner and self to know where you both stand as an individual.
In the modern Indian society, the youth do not seem to make a good balance between career and family. Therefore, these are some of the questions which need to be asked before marriage to one another for a happier tomorrow. Take a note on these.
How much influence do your parents still have over your decisions?
This is a very important question you need to ask to your spouse in order to avoid an unhappy married life.
What do you like, or dislike about my family?
In India, marriage is not just the unison of two people but two families as a whole. Therefore, this is one of the important questions you need to ask to your spouse before marriage.
How close are you with your family?
This is actually a generous way of asking if your man is a mamma’s boy. Women do not generally like mamma’s pet. All the best if you are one!
Are we both professionally established?
It should be the first question that needs to be taken into consideration. Because today it is highly essential that both the partners are professionally stable for a successful marriage.
How will we manage debts and savings?
This question should come directly next to the first. Clear out if any of you are in any sort of debt and how will you deal with it as a couple.
Will one of us give up our career to stay home with our child/children?
In India family is given utmost importance and as such many are seen leaving their career to look after their children. Therefore, consider this beforehand.